the last post about NJ
I had to do an overhaul on some of the posts on this blog in reference to my whack job of a brother. This will be the last time I even mention him… I hope! Well, at least publicly. I have the ability to set posts private, and will do that. You see, here’s the story. Two days ago I am working and minding my own business with thoughts of NJ (nutjob = brother) never ever on my mind anymore. You see, in January 2009, I really let it go.
Suddenly, I get a random comment to a post made in January 2009 about birth order, etc… on my public family blog which I will not list here since the point of this one is to speak my mind! The comment said something to the effect of being dedicated to the hero child who is still performing on the internet. I was like, “Whaaaa?” Sure enough do an arin whois and it’s NJ. I posted a reply to the NJ that ONLY had the IP of the originator and the company name. Yeah, you are busted. Yeah you signed it Michael, the same name by the way that you used when trying to stalk your ex-wife on myspace years ago and deleted your profile suddenly when she started figuring it out. Yep. You are definitely a NJ. He realizes he’s busted at that point and responds from my incarcerated brother – angerandvengeance@gmail.com and called me a piece of sh*t. Whatever. I deleted it
He then proceeds to get on Facebook and harrass my mom while she is here with my dad about my blog post saying it was all about him. It really wasn’t. I didn’t even ASSIGN him a profile but at this point I’d say yeah… you are the scapegoat and a miserable human being. He tells her that he will add her to the list of those he is not speaking to. (Say it isn’t so!!! I now realize being on his list has been a BLESSING that I have not recognized properly). AND that he isn’t coming for the holidays! WOO WOO! Another peaceful Thanksgiving and Christmas! YES!
Here’s the lie. He says that a consultant there in NC came in with the last name the same as my hubby. He says to my parents that he told the guy, “Oh, my sister is married to a ________ do you know any in (state)?” The guy didn’t. Then later he just HAPPENED to come back and said he googled my last name and the blog came right up. Funny. You try to do that and it doesn’t. He said that it would ruin his reputation though the post had no mention that I even had a NJ of a brother. Hilarious. Even more hilarious is that I can see it was only him on the website by unique users in Charlotte, NC. Idiot.
Things blow up here. Settle down. Then yesterday it starts back up again b/c NJ sent our dad an email with all kinds of cursing in it about my blog in general and that the company my dad works for flagged the email and he’s being investigated. So he called his son, NJ, who should know being the big time management guy he is too about company email and the use of vulgar language… then says he is going to sue me. Really, NJ. There is NOTHING to sue over.
My dad tells him that he is a grown man and that I am a grown woman and that if he has anything to say he should just call me. Amen Dad. NJ doesn’t have the internal fortitude to even try to call me though I wouldn’t answer the phone anyway.
This all happened for a reason. I’m always asking and found 30 blog posts over the life of this blog about how crazy NJ is. All the hurt he has caused in our family.
Bottom line:
1. Thank you for ignoring me the past two years. Thank you. Seriously. You physically attacking me years ago really was the end of me caring about you like I wish I could. Thanks for nailing the nails in the coffin on our relationship. I have asked God to let us reconcile, but God can’t make you do anything. You are obviously a NJ and crazy.
2. Mom and Dad are seeing your ways through this last incident. Dad read my blog and found nothing about you NJ.
3. I needed this closure.
Done. Done. Done.
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